Definitions and Pronouns

LGBTQ Glossary of Terms

Adapted from the Human Rights Campaign, with some definitions from Gender Wiki along with GLAAD Reference Guide and Healthline LGBTQ+ Gender Terms Guide. Please use the list of living language as a reference resource but know that no list can be inclusive of all LGBTQ-related terms or encompass all definitions of identities and experiences.

*NOTE:  Ask people what terms they use to describe their sexual orientation, gender identity and gender expression before assigning them a label. Outside of acronyms, these terms should only be capitalized when used at the beginning of a sentence.

Gender Identity

One’s innermost concept of self as male, female, a blend of both or neither – how individuals perceive themselves and what they call themselves. One's gender identity can be the same or different from their sex assigned at birth.

  • Refers to a person whose gender identity does not align with the sex, gender, and/or gender roles they were assigned at birth. Some transgender people identify within the gender binary as a transman or a transwoman, some identify outside of the gender binary.

  • A person, who regardless of their sex assigned at birth, identifies as a woman. The term cisgender woman (or ciswoman) describes someone who was assigned female at birth and identifies as a woman. The term transgender woman (or transwoman) describes someone who was assigned male at birth and identifies as a woman.

  • A person, who regardless of their sex assigned at birth, identifies as a man. The term cisgender man (or cisman) describes someone who was assigned male at birth and identifies as a man. The term transgender man (or transman) describes someone who was assigned female at birth and identifies as a man.

  • Both a specific identity and an umbrella term to describes a person who identifies outside of the male/female gender binary. Some non-binary people also identify as transgender.

  • Refers to a person who identifies as having both a masculine and a feminine spirit, and is used by some Indigenous people to describe their sexual, gender and/or spiritual identity. This term is used by indigenous peoples only.

  • An identity which describes someone who either does not identify with any gender, identifies as gender neutral, and/or identities outside of the gender binary. Some agender people also identify as non-binary and/or transgender.

  • Refers to a person who identifies with the sex, gender, and gender roles they were assigned at birth, typically within the gender binary. As an identity, this term is typically used in front of the terms man or woman.

  • a person who does not identify with a single fixed gender; of or relating to a person having or expressing a fluid or unfixed gender identity.

  • Conveys a wider, more flexible range of gender identity and/or expression than typically associated with the binary gender system

  • A broad term referring to people who do not behave in a way that conforms to the traditional expectations of their gender, or whose gender expression does not fit neatly into a category.

  • Genderqueer people typically reject notions of static categories of gender and embrace a fluidity of gender identity and often, though not always, sexual orientation. People who identify as "genderqueer" may see themselves as being both male and female, neither male nor female or as falling completely outside these categories

  • An umbrella term that describes people who have sex characteristics — such as chromosomes, internal organs, hormones, or anatomy — that can’t be easily categorized into the binary sex framework of male or female.

    Intersex conveys information about a person’s sex characteristics but doesn’t indicate anything about their gender identity.

Sexual & Romantic Orientation

Romantic orientation is a term that originates with asexual communities. It describes romantic attractions, whereas sexual orientation is associated with sexual attractions. A person's romantic and sexual orientation may differ.

  • A woman who is emotionally, romantically or sexually attracted to other women.

  • A person who is emotionally, romantically or sexually attracted to members of the same gender.

  • A person emotionally, romantically or sexually attracted to more than one sex, gender or gender identity though not necessarily simultaneously, in the same way or to the same degree.

  • A term people often use to express fluid identities and orientations. Often used interchangeably with "LGBTQ." **Some people do not use this term because of its history as a slur. Allies should be especially thoughtful when using the word “queer.”

  • The lack of a romantic attraction or desire for other people. Some aromantic people can experience romantic attraction.

  • The lack of a sexual attraction or desire for other people. Some asexual people can experience sexual attraction.

  • A term for a person who may be attracted to people of any birth-assigned sex or gender identity or expression, including those outside the gender binary.

  • A term some prefer to use instead of lesbian, gay or bisexual to express attraction to and love of people of the same gender. (ex: “women-loving woman” / WLW or “man-loving man” MLM)

Gender Expression

External appearance of one's gender identity, usually expressed through behavior, clothing, haircut or voice, and which may or may not conform to socially defined behaviors and characteristics.

  • behaviours, presentations and roles which are/were culturally associated with being a woman and/or possessing female characteristics. People of any gender identity or sexual orientation can be feminine, but those who are assigned female at birth often experience societal pressure to be so. Transgender people who are feminine may be described as transfeminine.

    Femininity is socially constructed and varies over time and between cultures. In a gender binary, femininity is constructed in opposition to the concept of masculinity.

  • This is a label for a gender identity or expression that describes someone with a gender that is or leans toward feminine. Some femmes also identify with the term “woman,” while many others don’t. Femme indicates the way someone experiences or expresses their gender and doesn’t provide any information about the gender or sex assigned to them at birth.

  • This term describes people who have a gender expression or presentation that they or others categorize as masculine. Masculine-presenting captures the part of someone’s gender that’s shown externally, either through aspects of their style, appearance, physical traits, mannerisms, or body language. This term doesn’t necessarily indicate anything about the way someone identifies their gender or the gender or sex assigned to them. Masculinity is socially constructed and varies over time and between cultures. In a gender binary, masculinity is constructed in opposition to the concept of femininity.

  • abbrev. for masculine. Some individuals use it to describe their gender identity, expression, and/or dating preferences.

Additional Terms to Know

  • A person who is not LGBTQ but actively shows support and consistently promotes equality.

  • Describes an LGBTQ person who has not disclosed their sexual orientation or gender identity.

  • The process in which a person first acknowledges, accepts and appreciates their sexual orientation or gender identity and begins to share that with others.

  • An acronym for “lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and queer.”

  • Exposing someone’s lesbian, gay, bisexual or transgender identity to others without their permission. Outing someone can have serious repercussions on employment, economic stability, personal safety or religious or family situations.

  • A term used to describe people who are in the process of exploring their sexual orientation or gender identity.

  • The gender binary is a term used to describe the idea that there are only two possible genders, man and woman, which can be assigned on the basis of genitalia. This system often also enforces masculinity for men and femininity for women through gender roles and socially-imposed restrictions to gender expression and sex characteristics

  • The gender spectrum at its simplest is a line of possibility drawn between “male” and “female” and at its most complex is an infinite dimensional vector space. The term is often to validate that there are more than two genders and that there are infinite ways to express yourself and your identities.

  • Clinically significant distress caused when a person's assigned birth gender is not the same as the one with which they identify. According to the American Psychiatric Association's Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM), the term - which replaces Gender Identity Disorder - "is intended to better characterize the experiences of affected children, adolescents, and adults."

  • Deadnaming is the act of referring to a transgender person's birth name instead of their chosen name. Many consider deadnaming to be a form of transphobia.

  • The act of referring to someone using a gender pronoun or gendered language that’s incorrect, inaccurate, or not inclusive of the person’s actual gender identity.

Pronoun Tips

● Putting your own pronouns after your name in an introduction or an email tagline is a very simple way to show you’re LGBTQ welcoming.

● Pronoun tips: If you don’t know someone’s pronoun, ask. If you make an error, apologize quickly and move on. If you are having trouble with pronouns, practice by yourself.

● Avoidance of terminology can come across as discomfort with LGBTQ people. So, practice using the terms above. If you make an error: sincerely thank them for their correction, learn more, and keep going!

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